"A beautiful, personal, gentle, practical book." --Diana Sollee, Director, Coalition for Marriage, Family, and Couples Education

"An outstanding and wonderfully helpful book." --Harriet Lerner, "The Dance of Anger"

"This book saved my marriage, and probably my sanity--and maybe my very life." --A letter from a grateful reader

"Thorough and measured...An intelligent look at the experience of adultery, the healing process, and final outcomes." --"Booklist"